In tattooing, contrast is everything. The sweet spot is balance. Creating meaning through clear separation between light and dark. ย Providing depth, while still leaving room for detail and texture.
Thatโs what I want to makeโart and tattoos that people donโt just get, but treasure. Pieces that mean something because theyโre tied to a moment, a memory, or a feeling.
There are plenty of modern comforts worth appreciating, and someday theyโll be someone elseโs nostalgia. But the values that last donโt change.
If youโre going to get a tattoo, speak with authority, build something that lasts, or guide others, donโt stop at knowing. Verify. Read the source. Ask better questions. Do the work. Thatโs how knowledge becomes leverageโand leverage, used well, becomes freedom.
Progress doesnโt always look like praise. Sometimes it looks like showing up anyway. So I will keep showing up. Refining the collar. Softening the muzzle transitions. Writing alongside the workโฆ and not waste the gift of time when itโs given.
Ninety days isnโt much in the grand scheme of life โ but when you show up every single day, even in small ways, it becomes its own kind of transformation.
Honoring the fallen, creating for the living, and staying grateful for every step in between.
Today wasnโt comfortable. But it was needed. It was about trusting the processโand it reminded me that strength isnโt just holding the line. Sometimes itโs knowing when to soften, when to speak up, and when to finally feel what youโve been carrying.
Understanding the path forward doesnโt magically clear the debris inside. Knowing what needs to change doesnโt guarantee the feelings will cooperate. But Iโm learning that this in-between space โ the uncomfortable, chaotic, conflicting middle โ is where real growth happens.
The First Time I Thought of Myself as an Adult During group therapy this week something someone shared brought up a memory I had not thought about in decades. I revisited this memory that shaped how I see myself even now. It was the first time I truly felt like an adult. I was stationed…